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12 February 2024

Adam Grant: The Surprising New Research On Procrastination, Perfectionism & Happiness!

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The myth-busts, hot takes, explainers, and tools worth keeping.

Myth Buster· 5

Myth Buster03:30

Adam Grant Says Video Games Are Not Simply Bad for Children

Grant says the research he has read suggests that, on balance, video games can have benefits alongside costs. He mentions associations with self-control, working memory, discipline, resilience, and possible mental-health benefits, but the episode does not establish that every game or amount of play is beneficial.

  • Grant contrasts the research with his mother's childhood fear that games were harming him
  • He describes challenge and repeated recovery from failure as possible mechanisms
  • His wording includes possible mental-health benefits rather than a universal clinical claim
  • The discussion does not specify game type, study design, or safe play limits

most of the benefits outweigh the costs

Adam Grant · 04:30
#video games#children#learning#research
Myth Buster19:00

Your Browser Does Not Cause Better Job Performance

Grant recounts a study of 50,000 people in which Chrome and Firefox users were, on average, stronger performers and stayed longer than Safari or Internet Explorer users. He explicitly rejects the idea that downloading a different browser causes improvement; he interprets the association as a possible signal of resourcefulness and willingness to question defaults.

  • Browser choice was an automatically collected data point in the study
  • The reported result was an average association, not a rule about individuals
  • Grant's proposed mechanism is initiative in questioning a default
  • He recommends asking candidates how they challenged a status quo, not screening by browser

it's not about the browser

Adam Grant · 20:30
#resourcefulness#initiative#defaults#work
Myth Buster25:30

Perfectionism Can Raise Grades Without Improving Job Performance

Grant attributes to research led by Tom Curran the finding that perfectionism is a risk factor for burnout. He also says the best evidence he has seen links perfectionism with better school grades but not better job performance; his explanation for the gap is presented as a hunch rather than a settled mechanism.

  • The burnout statement is presented as a research finding
  • Grant distinguishes structured school tests from ambiguous workplace evaluation
  • He suggests fear of flaws may discourage risk-taking and growth
  • The proposed explanation for workplace results is explicitly described as uncertain

it's a risk factor for Burnout

Adam Grant · 26:30

I think the jury is still out

Adam Grant · 26:30
#perfectionism#burnout#work#performance
Myth Buster41:30

Birth Order Is Not a Personal Destiny Test

Grant gives a strong disclaimer that birth-order science contains conflicting findings. He identifies two patterns he considers comparatively consistent—slightly higher average IQ scores among firstborns and greater average risk-taking among later-borns—but repeatedly stresses that the effects are tiny and say little about any individual.

  • Grant calls the overall science of birth order a mess
  • The tutor effect is offered as a possible explanation for the firstborn IQ pattern
  • Later-born risk-taking is illustrated with sibling pairs in professional baseball
  • Family freedom and the search for a distinct niche are discussed as possible mechanisms

they are tiny effects tiny

Adam Grant · 41:30
#birth order#risk#intelligence#siblings
Myth Buster1:18:30

Impostor Thoughts Are More Common Than Feeling Like a Fraud

Grant distinguishes rare, pervasive feelings of being a fraud from more common everyday doubts about readiness or ability. Citing research by a researcher he identifies as Bima across several professional and student groups, he says frequent impostor thoughts can sometimes motivate persistence, preparation, listening, and learning rather than only causing harm.

  • Grant separates impostor thoughts from a pervasive syndrome label
  • The claimed benefits come from research he attributes to Bima
  • A perceived gap between others' confidence and personal readiness can prompt extra effort
  • Grant suggests taking repeated confidence from informed observers seriously

that feeling is actually pretty rare

Adam Grant · 1:19:00
#impostor thoughts#confidence#learning#motivation

Explainer· 5

Explainer07:30

Why an Individual Superstar May Still Weaken the Team

Grant argues that individual brilliance does not guarantee that a player elevates colleagues. Drawing an analogy from NBA research, he says teams with more selfish or narcissistic players failed to improve as much across a season, while carefully noting that he is not a Ronaldo expert and that basketball differs from football.

  • Highly interdependent teams depend on stars making others more effective
  • Grant cites NBA evidence rather than direct causal evidence about Ronaldo
  • A central, self-focused player may limit team improvement
  • Grant defines meaningful success partly as helping other people succeed

I'm not a Ronaldo expert

Adam Grant · 08:00

the most meaningful way to succeed is to help other people succeed

Adam Grant · 09:00
#teamwork#leadership#sport#giving
Explainer23:00

Why Early Mastery May Not Produce Adult Originality

Grant says most child prodigies do not become known as adult geniuses, while emphasizing that this is not true in every case. His explanation is that rapid mastery and repeated success can limit practice with failure, risk, trial and error, and creating something genuinely new.

  • Practice can perfect an existing form without producing novelty
  • Natural ease may reduce the need to seek difficult new information
  • Repeated rewards for conventional mastery can entrench an existing mold
  • Grant contrasts early ability with character skills used to keep growing

practice does make perfect but it doesn't make new

Adam Grant · 23:30
#prodigies#creativity#learning#failure
Explainer53:30

The Startup Culture That Wins Early Can Slow Growth Later

Grant describes research comparing startup culture blueprints over 15 years. Commitment cultures were reportedly less likely to fail and more likely to go public, but after going public they grew more slowly; he says an overly narrow approach to culture fit can reduce diversity of thought and promote groupthink.

  • Commitment cultures prioritize mission, values, and belonging over star talent
  • The reported early-stage outcomes favored commitment cultures
  • Hiring for similarity can be mistaken for hiring for values alignment
  • Grant recommends alignment on a small set of core values without demanding matching backgrounds or personalities

after these companies go public they grow at slower rates

Adam Grant · 54:30
#culture#startups#hiring#groupthink
Explainer56:00

Star Performers May Be More Team-Dependent Than They Realize

Grant cites studies of financial analysts, cardiac surgeons, sports teams, and flight crews to argue that expertise is partly embedded in shared routines and relationships. The examples suggest that changing teams can temporarily reduce performance, although the episode does not provide enough methodological detail to turn those examples into a universal prediction.

  • Grant says transferred star analysts took years on average to recover unless their team moved too
  • He cites hospital-specific surgeon performance as evidence of team interdependence
  • Shared routines help colleagues anticipate strengths and weaknesses
  • Familiarity can aid execution even when individuals think of themselves as standalone experts

you are much more interdependent than you realize

Adam Grant · 57:00
#teams#performance#expertise#collaboration
Explainer1:25:30

Share the Idea Without Making Yourself the Product

Grant distinguishes self-promotion, which centers accomplishments and status, from idea promotion, which offers an insight, product, or service that may help other people. He argues that fear of appearing boastful stops useful work from being shared and says he prefers a reputation grounded in values over a rigid personal brand.

  • Self-promotion asks the audience to admire the person
  • Idea promotion asks the audience to consider something useful
  • Grant says a fixed personal brand can discourage public rethinking
  • A reputation for values can remain coherent while specific beliefs change

idea promotion is saying I have something worth sharing

Adam Grant · 1:26:00

if I don't contradict myself I am failing to learn

Adam Grant · 1:29:00
#ideas#reputation#sharing#personal brand

Story· 1

Story1:16:30

Grant Waited 45 Minutes on a Diving Board to Feel Ready

Grant tells how fear left him standing on a springboard for as long as 45 minutes before a new dive. His coach's question—if he planned to do it eventually, what was he waiting for?—became a recurring prompt when Grant later hesitated over writing a book or giving a TED Talk.

  • Grant had both a fear of heights and fear of painful failed dives
  • Waiting for confidence consumed practice time without reducing the challenge
  • He concluded that action can build confidence rather than requiring confidence first
  • The story concerns bounded growth risks, not reckless action

you build your confidence by taking the leap

Adam Grant · 1:17:30
#confidence#fear#action#diving

Takeaway· 1

Takeaway1:13:30

Early Performance Is a Poor Map of Hidden Potential

Grant says evidence from world-class performers suggests they often did not stand out from peers at the beginning. He argues that unusual motivation may reveal more than unusual initial ability, and uses his own progress in diving, public speaking, and writing as personal illustrations rather than proof that every pursuit has unlimited potential.

  • Early teachers and parents often failed to identify later world-class performers
  • Grant warns against quitting solely because a skill is not immediately natural
  • His own examples include remedial writing and fear of public speaking
  • He also acknowledges that people have real differences and limits

we underestimate potential in ourselves and others consistently

Adam Grant · 1:13:30
#potential#motivation#learning#growth