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Self-deprecation became Joe Sugg's defence against teasing
Sugg says the move from a 52-pupil primary school to a secondary school of more than 1,000 coincided with becoming quieter and encountering teasing. He recalls learning that making fun of himself first could make other pupils lose interest in doing it.
- He felt confident and known in his small primary school.
- The much larger secondary school changed his social environment.
- He distinguishes teasing from what he would call sustained bullying.
- Self-deprecation functioned as a protective social tactic.
“if I'm already sort of poking fun at myself they will get bored”
#childhood#confidence#teasing#self-deprecation
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Roof thatching gave his uncertain YouTube career a safety net
Despite strong A-level grades and his school's advice, Sugg chose to learn roof thatching from his uncle and found the physical craft deeply satisfying. When YouTube began growing from a hobby into a possible career, knowing he could return to work he genuinely loved made a one-year attempt feel safer.
- Thatching was learned through apprenticeship and work rather than a classroom course.
- Completing a visible roof gave him a strong sense of accomplishment.
- He retained his A-levels as an additional fallback.
- A loved and credible alternative reduced the risk of trying YouTube.
“I always like the idea of having safety nets underneath me”
“I can go back to a job that I genuinely really really love”
#career#risk#craft#youtube
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One email took him from a thatched roof to Simon Cowell's house
Sugg recalls working on roofs five days a week when an invitation arrived to fly to Los Angeles and interview Simon Cowell. The sudden contrast—from straw in his shoes to business class and a celebrity's home—felt unreal and contributed to the imposter syndrome he says continued even before this podcast appearance.
- His sister Zoe and Alfie encouraged him to try the format they had enjoyed as children.
- He believes the timing of early YouTube helped simple videos spread quickly.
- The leap from manual work to celebrity access felt like a double life.
- He says imposter syndrome can make people question whether they deserve opportunities.
“yesterday I was on a roof thatching and now I'm sat in Simon Cowell's fancy house”
“there should be other people”
#youtube#fame#imposter syndrome#career change
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Three channels and multiple projects pushed him toward burnout
Around 2016 or 2017, Sugg says he was independently ideating, filming, editing, promoting, and maintaining three YouTube channels while also working on a book and a BBC Studios feature. He contrasts the anxiety and overload he felt with the clear daily structure of roof thatching, while also acknowledging that every career has difficult conditions.
- He was handling the full production cycle without help.
- A book and a travel feature added to the simultaneous workload.
- His former job had fixed hours and a predictable sequence of tasks.
- Support from YouTube, colleagues, friends, and family helped him through the period.
“three YouTube channels that I was trying to all keep up at the same time”
“I had such a solid structure”
#burnout#workload#structure#youtube
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Balcony gardening gave him distance from the online whirlwind
During lockdown, Sugg began caring for plants on his balcony and says the simple activity made him feel calm and reduced his anxiety at the time. He turned the experience and memories of his countryside childhood into a partly practical book about finding an individual balance between online and offline life, not rejecting social media or phones.
- Gardening directed his attention toward caring for something outside himself.
- He personally associated nature with calm and his rural childhood.
- His book combines memoir with practical suggestions.
- He presents balance as individual rather than claiming social media is universally bad.
“disconnecting myself from that and sort of reconnecting myself with something as simple as nature made me feel so good”
“finding a balance that's right for you”
#nature#gardening#social media#balance
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Strictly's forced proximity bypassed his tendency to overthink dating
Sugg says he and Dianne Buswell might not have connected outside Strictly Come Dancing, because even contestants with different partners saw little of one another. Sixteen weeks of close training exposed them to each other's best and worst moments under growing pressure; after the show, missing that time together led them to decide to meet as a couple.
- Buswell was Sugg's first serious girlfriend.
- Being paired ensured repeated time together without dating being the initial goal.
- Competition pressure revealed how each responded on difficult days.
- They discussed seeing each other after the show ended.
“we saw the best and the worst in each other”
“I actually kind of want to spend more time with you”
#relationships#strictly come dancing#overthinking#proximity
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A paparazzi pursuit turned an early date into a James Bond escape
On an early trip with Dianne Buswell, Sugg says he recognised a parked photographer and later noticed the same car following them. He reports becoming so anxious that concentrating on driving was difficult, so he diverted from their destination and, with the James Bond theme playing, safely lost the follower before continuing.
- Public attention around the new relationship made him alert to being watched.
- A distinctive borrowed Aston Martin made his car easy to follow.
- He chose not to lead the photographer to their destination.
- No photographs from the pursuit appeared in the press.
“I actually can't concentrate on driving because I know this person is just trying to follow us”
“put on the James Bond theme song”
#paparazzi#privacy#anxiety#fame