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27 July 2023

Shocking TRUE Story: “I Lost Both Of My Legs Because Of A Tampon” (Health Warning) - Lauren Wasser

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Hot Take· 1

Hot Take1:21:30

The Episode's Strong Tampon Claims Need Medical Caution

Wasser argues that chemicals and synthetic fibers in menstrual products create the conditions for toxic shock syndrome and other illnesses, while Steven Bartlett repeats parts of that causal framing. These are claims made in the interview: the episode provides no independent medical expert, cited evidence, product analysis, or discussion of alternative explanations sufficient to establish them as fact.

  • Wasser attributes her illness to tampon use despite changing the product regularly
  • She claims chlorine, bleach, dioxin, pesticides, and synthetic fibers make available products unsafe
  • Bartlett presents synthetic chemicals as the cause when returning to the topic
  • Wasser also links menstrual products with several other conditions without evidence presented in the episode
  • The interview does not establish that no menstrual product is safe or that the named chemicals caused her case

Zooming in specifically on what causes TSS it's these synthetic chemicals

Steven Bartlett · 1:21:30

Even if it says it's organic, it's still sprayed with pesticides.

Lauren Wasser · 1:23:00
#toxic shock syndrome#tampons#medical claims#evidence

Explainer· 1

Explainer1:18:30

Why Returning to Sport Can Depend on Prosthetic Access

Wasser explains that basic prostheses may provide point-to-point mobility while running, swimming, cycling, and other activities require specialized equipment that health coverage may treat as optional. She says sponsorship gives her access to advanced legs and running blades, and contrasts that privilege with the costs facing many amputees.

  • Different prosthetic components support different activities
  • Wasser reports that advanced feet and running blades can cost very large sums
  • She says ordinary health coverage may not restore a person's former athletic life
  • Wasser identifies her sponsorship as an exceptional advantage
  • She mentions the Challenged Athletes Foundation as helping people obtain equipment

that's a luxury considered

Lauren Wasser · 1:19:30

prosthetics are so expensive

Lauren Wasser · 1:19:00
#prosthetics#healthcare access#sport#cost

Story· 9

Story02:30

How Basketball Shaped Lauren Wasser Before Her Life Changed

Lauren Wasser contrasts a childhood surrounded by fashion and physical perfection with her identity as a tomboy and athlete. She credits basketball with teaching her to show up consistently, work hard, and build the determination she later drew upon during recovery.

  • Wasser grew up around prominent models through her mother's career
  • She says basketball, not modeling, was her first love
  • Her teenage ambition was to play professionally
  • She believes athletic discipline contributed to her survival and recovery

basketball was my first love

Lauren Wasser · 03:00

have to show up every single day and give it your all

Lauren Wasser · 03:00
#basketball#childhood#discipline#identity
Story05:30

From Flu-Like Symptoms to an Emergency Welfare Check

Wasser reconstructs the day she became critically ill in October 2012, beginning with flu-like symptoms while menstruating and using tampons. After she stopped responding, her mother persisted in seeking another welfare check; police then found Wasser unconscious on her bedroom floor and she was rushed to hospital.

  • Wasser says she changed tampons repeatedly that day rather than knowingly leaving one in for an unusually long period
  • She initially interpreted the symptoms as seasonal flu
  • A first welfare check ended without hospital transport
  • Her mother's continued concern led to a second check
  • Wasser reports that she was found unconscious and critically ill

I think I just have the flu.

Lauren Wasser · 09:30

They found me face down on my bedroom floor

Lauren Wasser · 10:30
#medical emergency#welfare check#toxic shock syndrome#family
Story11:00

The Question That Led Doctors to a Toxic Shock Diagnosis

Wasser says an infectious-disease doctor asked whether she had a tampon in, after which testing led clinicians to diagnose toxic shock syndrome. She reports two heart attacks, organ and kidney failure, life support, a coma, and being given a very low chance of survival; these details are her recollection of what she and her family were told.

  • The hospital initially faced a rapidly deteriorating previously healthy patient
  • An infectious-disease doctor connected her presentation with tampon use
  • Wasser says laboratory testing identified the toxic-shock diagnosis
  • She reports spending about a week and a half in a coma on life support
  • Her family prepared for the possibility that she would die

does she have a tampon in?

Lauren Wasser quoting a doctor · 11:00

They put me on life support.

Lauren Wasser · 11:30
#toxic shock syndrome#diagnosis#critical care#coma
Story20:30

Wasser Learned About Her Amputation by Overhearing a Call

While alone in intensive care with worsening damage to her feet, Wasser says she overheard a nurse arranging a transfer and describing her expected right-leg amputation. At UCLA, attempts to improve circulation did not stop advancing gangrene, and doctors told her the right leg had to be removed to prevent the infection from killing her.

  • Wasser describes severe burning pain and discoloration in both feet
  • She says the first explicit mention of amputation reached her through an overheard call
  • Hyperbaric treatment was used in an effort to salvage tissue
  • She reports that gangrene progressed quickly in the right leg
  • Doctors framed the operation as a choice between her leg and her life

she's talking about me?

Lauren Wasser · 22:00

I didn't have an option.

Lauren Wasser · 27:30
#amputation#gangrene#intensive care#patient experience
Story29:30

Signing for Surgery—and Waking to Uncontrolled Pain

Wasser describes signing consent while feeling that the operation would remove both her leg and the athletic identity on which she had built her life. She says complications involving her already injured heart meant clinicians withheld pain medicine for 24 hours after surgery, leaving her in extreme distress; the episode does not provide clinical records or a medical explanation beyond her recollection.

  • The operation felt to Wasser like a permanent loss of identity as well as limb
  • Her mother and family were visibly devastated before surgery
  • Wasser initially could not look at or acknowledge the amputated leg
  • She reports being told pain medication could not be given for 24 hours because of her medical condition
  • She describes the postoperative pain as overwhelming

it was my life or was my leg

Lauren Wasser · 31:00

I felt every single thing that was done to me.

Lauren Wasser · 38:30
#surgery#pain#consent#amputation
Story40:00

What Kept Wasser Alive During Eight Months of Despair

During eight months in a wheelchair, Wasser says she experienced severe pain, depression, and recurrent suicidal thoughts. She describes an inner instruction to hold on, alongside the knowledge that her younger brother or mother might find her, as reasons she did not act; suicidal thinking requires urgent professional or emergency support, not reliance on willpower alone.

  • Wasser says she repeatedly cried and shouted while trying to process the loss
  • She describes suicidal thinking as persistent during the darkest period
  • Concern for the lasting impact on her mother and brother helped interrupt those thoughts
  • She also credits faith and a sense of future purpose
  • The episode later confirms that she received therapy

Just hold on.

Lauren Wasser · 41:00

he would be the first one to find me

Lauren Wasser · 43:00
#suicidal ideation#depression#family#faith
Story56:00

Why Wasser Chose a Second Amputation Seven Years Later

Wasser says she spent seven years trying to preserve her left leg despite repeated procedures, wound care, and chronic pain. Approaching 30, she concluded that the remaining leg was preventing her from running, playing basketball, and living as she wanted, so she chose amputation and describes the result as regaining freedom.

  • Wasser wanted to exhaust available options before making an irreversible decision
  • She reports repeated surgery and wound treatment on her damaged foot and heel
  • Chronic pain limited ordinary walking and athletic movement
  • The second amputation was elective rather than the emergency she faced with the first
  • She says she has not regretted the decision

I need to exhaust all of my options before I make a decision

Lauren Wasser · 58:00

I wanted my life back. I wanted my freedom.

Lauren Wasser · 1:10:30
#amputation#chronic pain#mobility#decision making
Story1:15:00

How the Golden Legs Turned Difference Into Curiosity

Wasser tells how a child at an airport examined his own leg, asked about hers, raced her, and ultimately told his mother he wanted a golden leg. She argues that allowing respectful questions can replace fear or stigma with curiosity, especially for children who are still forming their assumptions about disability.

  • Wasser welcomes respectful questions from children
  • She believes adults can unintentionally teach stigma by forbidding children to look or ask
  • The airport encounter ended with the child seeing her leg as desirable rather than frightening
  • Her gold prosthetic covers were inspired by her own style and became a signature

Mommy, Mommy, I want a golden leg.

Lauren Wasser quoting a child · 1:16:00

Let them ask the questions.

Lauren Wasser · 1:16:30
#prosthetics#children#disability#curiosity
Story1:26:30

Turning Survival Into a Campaign for Menstrual-Product Reform

Wasser describes working with a mother whose teenage daughter died after toxic shock syndrome and advocating for legislation and greater product transparency. She cites efforts to revive the Robin Danielson Act and says her desired endpoint is a world in which menstrual products no longer expose users to the danger she experienced; the episode does not independently verify the bill's history or current status.

  • Wasser joined forces with another bereaved family to advocate for change
  • She identifies product disclosure and safer options as central goals
  • She says the Robin Danielson Act was named after a woman who died in 1998
  • She reports meeting Congresswoman Carolyn Maloney to seek renewed action
  • Her personal success condition is preventing another person from experiencing the same harm

there's bills that we are working on to pass

Lauren Wasser · 1:27:00

My job isn't done by any means.

Lauren Wasser · 1:35:30
#advocacy#legislation#menstrual products#product safety

Takeaway· 1

Takeaway51:00

Eight Months in a Wheelchair Exposed an Inaccessible World

Wasser says wheelchair use revealed how ordinary spaces and routines exclude people with disabilities and how visible disability is often mistaken for incapability. She describes rarely going outside, hiding in darkness, and feeling judged while also gaining deep respect for the mental strength required to navigate an environment not built for wheelchair users.

  • Everyday barriers included stairs, showers, movement, and public space
  • Wasser says inaccessibility intensified her isolation
  • She identifies a stigma that equates disability with incapability
  • Her experience changed how she understood wheelchair users
  • She stresses that appearance does not determine what someone can do

The world is not accessible.

Lauren Wasser · 52:30

there's just like stigma of incapable

Lauren Wasser · 53:00
#disability#accessibility#wheelchair#stigma