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Cofounder Expectation Alignment

Make effort and role assumptions concrete before they become resentment

Difficulty
Easy
Time to result
~days to results
Steps
5
Confidence
99%

Siemiatkowski's rule is to discuss the unglamorous operating agreement before celebrating the future company. Each collaborator states the role they expect to play, the hours they will contribute, their outside priorities, the duration of their involvement, and the work for which they will be accountable. The objective is not to force identical schedules: one person may contribute 30 hours and another 80 if the difference is understood and reflected in the arrangement. The team then checks that equity, compensation, decision rights, and written terms match that shared understanding. This converts vague enthusiasm into testable expectations and exposes assumptions before they turn into conflict or resentment. Klarna learned the lesson after its founders believed an external engineering team would remain full-time while the engineers believed they were delivering a working system and leaving.

Origin

Klarna gave an engineering group 37% of the company for its early technology. The founders expected the engineers to stay and build the company; the engineers understood the deal as delivery of source code and a working system. The contract supported the engineers' interpretation.

Core principles

  • 01Shared ambition does not guarantee shared assumptions
  • 02Different commitment levels can work when everyone agrees to them
  • 03Concrete expectations surface conflict earlier than inspirational plans
  • 04Roles, time, duration, and ownership should agree with one another

How to run it

  1. 1

    Describe the actual role

    Have each collaborator describe the work they expect to own, the decisions they expect to make, and whether the role is temporary or ongoing.

    Pro tip Ask what an ordinary week will contain, not only what success will look like years later.

    Watch out A title such as co-founder or adviser does not define the operating commitment.

  2. 2

    Quantify the commitment

    State expected weekly time and identify outside work, exercise, family, or social priorities that materially limit availability.

    Pro tip Use a range and availability pattern if a single hour number would create false precision.

    Watch out Do not moralize different commitment levels; expose and align them.

  3. 3

    Define the handoff

    Specify deliverables, ongoing responsibilities, and what happens after the initial product or milestone is complete.

    Pro tip Ask explicitly who maintains, hires, and leads after the first system works.

    Watch out A deliverable and a continuing team are different agreements.

  4. 4

    Match the economics

    Check that ownership, compensation, and decision rights reflect the agreed contribution and duration. Put the resulting terms into an appropriate written agreement.

    Pro tip Read the agreement by asking what happens under each party's least convenient interpretation.

    Watch out Shared goodwill does not repair contract language that encodes a different deal.

  5. 5

    Review the reality

    Revisit the agreement after work begins and whenever roles, availability, or company needs materially change.

    Pro tip Raise drift while it is still a planning issue rather than waiting for resentment.

    Watch out An original agreement cannot align a partnership forever if the facts change.

In the wild

The engineering team leaves after launch

Klarna's founders thought four or five experienced engineers would join the company full-time. The engineers thought they were providing code and a working system before moving on. Four months after development began, the first customer launched, and the engineers left. Siemiatkowski says the founders had given them 37% and found that the contract reflected the limited technology delivery rather than the continuing relationship they had assumed.

Klarna gained a fast launch but faced a painful ownership dispute and an immediate need to build engineering capability.

Common mistakes

Discussing only the exciting future

Shared excitement can conceal incompatible expectations about the weekly work required to build that future.

Assuming equal equity means equal effort

Ownership does not make time, duration, or responsibilities self-explanatory.

Leaving duration implicit

A party delivering an initial system and a party joining indefinitely may perform similar early work while believing they made very different agreements.

Is it for you?

Best for

It is best for co-founders and early partners before work begins or equity and responsibilities are finalized.

Not ideal for

It is not ideal as a substitute for legal advice, a proper agreement, or continuing conversations when circumstances change.

From the transcript

don't only talk about all the amazing stuff you're going to do

Sebastian Siemiatkowski · (37:00)

how many hours per week are you going to spend on this

Sebastian Siemiatkowski · (37:00)

Make it super concrete exactly what expectations you have on each other

Sebastian Siemiatkowski · (37:30)

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Klarna Founder: From $0 to $46 Billion: Sebastian Siemiatkowski