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Intuition Muscle

Strengthen inner judgement by hearing it, testing it, and letting it lead

Difficulty
Advanced
Time to result
~ongoing to results
Steps
5
Confidence
92%

The Intuition Muscle model treats inner judgement as a capacity strengthened through repeated attention and calibrated action. Begin by getting quiet enough to identify the first internal signal before advice, status, or social expectations drown it out. Do not obey the signal blindly: distinguish ordinary fear from concrete danger, inspect the practical risks, and choose a bounded action that can produce feedback. After acting, compare what you sensed with what happened. Each cycle improves pattern recognition and trust in your own context. Continually dismissing the signal has the opposite effect, making it harder to hear. The mechanism therefore combines listening, action, and review rather than presenting intuition as magic or certainty.

Origin

Extracted from The Diary of a CEO

Core principles

  • 01Intuition grows through use like a muscle
  • 02Repeatedly dismissing an inner signal makes it quieter
  • 03Other people lack the full context of your life
  • 04Logic and intuition can disagree without either being ignored

How to run it

  1. 1

    Quiet the borrowed voices

    Pause advice-seeking and reduce social noise long enough to hear your own initial response. Name whose expectations are loudest.

    Pro tip Write before asking anyone else what they think.

  2. 2

    Capture the signal

    Record which direction feels compelling or wrong and the cues behind that response. Avoid polishing it into a rational argument too early.

    Pro tip Use plain language such as 'not for me' or 'I keep returning to this.'

    Watch out Discomfort alone does not prove an option is harmful.

  3. 3

    Check the risk

    Test the signal against evidence, obligations, and downside. Bring in expertise where the consequences require it.

    Pro tip Separate reversible experiments from irreversible commitments.

    Watch out Never use intuition to overrule urgent safety or medical guidance without qualified review.

  4. 4

    Let it lead a bounded move

    Take a proportionate step in the selected direction. Make the action small enough to learn without pretending certainty.

    Pro tip Choose a move that creates observable feedback.

  5. 5

    Calibrate from the result

    Compare the outcome with your original signal and note which cues were useful. Repeat the cycle to strengthen judgement over time.

    Pro tip Keep a short decision log rather than relying on memory.

    Watch out Do not rewrite the original prediction after seeing the result.

In the wild

Choosing against conventional advice

The guest describes following an internal direction even when a parent, friend, mentor, or boss said another route looked more successful. She says repeated practice made that internal voice stronger and easier to trust.

Her own definition of success, including happiness, peace, and freedom, becomes the decision standard.

Illustrative project choice

A founder feels drawn to a smaller customer problem despite advisers preferring a fashionable market. They document the signal, check runway and demand, and run a one-week customer test instead of making a full pivot.

The founder learns whether the intuition reflects real customer evidence at bounded cost.

Common mistakes

Calling impulse intuition

An immediate desire is treated as infallible. Calibration requires checking risk and reviewing outcomes, not merely feeling strongly.

Outsourcing the whole choice

Advice is allowed to replace the decision-maker's unique context. Advisers can provide evidence, but they do not live the consequences.

Is it for you?

Best for

It is best for personal or career decisions where the decision-maker has context that advisers cannot fully possess.

Not ideal for

It is not ideal as a replacement for qualified expertise in technical, legal, financial, or medical decisions.

From the transcript

It's like any muscle, you know, you gotta work it.

Guest · 22:00

You've got to listen to it. You have to make it brave to talk to you.

Guest · 22:30

Sometimes the logic makes a lot more sense than your intuition.

Guest · 24:00

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